Dating the nice guy
Confident men can express vulnerability and caring without seeming weak.
Such an attitude ends up being a negative aspect in relationships, because girls are quick to spot a needy guy.
Here’s what you can do to help out a guy with a nice guy syndrome: Remember that he is continually seeking approval because he was subjected to a lot of criticism during his childhood.
You can change his mind conditioning by appreciating him for every small thing you can think of.
While I’m not criticizing the seduction community, it’s important to understand where they fit in.
If you’re looking for one night stands, looking to pick up that hot girl just for tonight, looking to be a pickup artist – that stuff will do wonders.But you can’t beat that quiet inner confidence which doesn’t compare to the fake stuff. And starting off by playing games and pretending to be something you’re not will get you single over and over again. First it’s important to be clear about what a nice guy syndrome is, basically it’s an attitude some guys have which makes them behave in a manner intended to please people in order to seek their approval, love or regard.I remind him that at a party, she doesn’t have a hundred men lined up to talk to her. The strength of online dating lies in its ability to give us access to total strangers; the downside is how difficult it is to keep their attention. Finally, we get to talking about the woman he’s writing to. I wrote about this extensively in a chapter from “Why You’re Still Single” creatively called “Don’t Play Games”, but to reiterate: NOTHING GOOD COMES OUT OF PLAYING GAMES. None of those things prevent a guy from being nice. Kindness without confidence is the charge against the wishy-washy “nice guys”.