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Taken to extreme, this hides someone else's insecurity and low self-esteem by "judging" others." I've never understood who some equate 'superficial' with 'low self-esteem'.
If someone is simply not very sophisticated why does that mean they don't think well of themselves?
You can learn to break the ice with finesse and talk to the girls or guys of your dreams! Speaking with someone you don't already know can be anxiety-provoking for a number of reasons (some of which I have addressed in previous articles).
These reasons include: Beyond all of those reasons, however, approaching someone is difficult because you are often opening yourself up for evaluation.
Who would knowingly want to put themselves in a position of vulnerability?
That is the reason why many women prefer to be "attractive" and try to motivate the man to approach them.
You're NOT asking what they think of YOU in any way.
Known as the Ben Franklin Effect, it is the phenomenon where people like others more when they do a favor for them (Jecker & Landry, 1969).Ask them a question and get them to earn your affection.Or, just make a statement and see whether they react.Taken to extreme, this hides someone else's insecurity and low self-esteem by "judging" others. If the other person is at all interested, he or she will continue the conversation.
So, when someone answers your question, give them a little back in return! They will more than likely chime in with their own statement.
Essentially, you are saying "I like you"..asking "do you like me"?